Consider telling the truth when you are fired

Consider telling the truth when you are fired Amanda Congdon, co-founder of Rocketboom, got fired last week. Congdon performed a fake daily newscast, which was downloaded by 300,000 people each day. Her audience was bigger than Connie Chungs. Congdon announced the end of her participation in Rocketboom in her last video blog. Her partner, she says, proposed many stories to offer up in place of getting fired. But Congdon declined and said, The Internet is all about being transparent. I dont think its just the Internet, though. Its the post-boomer generation. Authenticity is important in the new workplace not just online. And it comes naturally to most young workers except when it comes to getting fired. But really, getting fired is not that big a deal, and I think we can all take a cue from Congdon and stop being embarrassed about it. In 1950, when you stayed at a company like you were married to it, getting fired was a big deal; it was like getting kicked out of the house by your spouse and having your clothes strewn across the front lawn. But things are different now. People are averaging a new job every three or four years (one or two years if youre under thirty-two) so getting fired is not such a big deal. You were probably going to leave anyway. And now you can take a long vacation. Most people do not lose their jobs because they are incompetent. They lose their jobs because of some sort of personality clash. I have said a million times that you should try to get a long with everyone. But few people can do it all of the time. So it seems to me that the new way to get fired is to let everyone know it. Congdon is not alone. Star Jones, for example, was careful to tell people she did not leave her spot at The View but was fired. Like Congdon, Jones says her boss wanted her to lie. And she thought it would be best for her career if she didnt. The most reliable way to get the kind of job you want next is to let people know what you want. And how can you be honest with people about what youre looking for next if you are pretending to have quit a job you like? How can people help you if they dont know what you want? This is why I like the idea of saying you got fired. And, while Im at it, whats up with saying taking time to be with my family? That is absurd. First of all, only men say it. If women said it, which they dont, people would think, Shell be out of the workforce for fifteen years. When men say it, people think, He got fired. Hes looking for a job. The most recent example of this is Jeff Jordan, who worked for eBay as president of PayPal, until he suddenly felt the urge to spend time with family this month. I am not buying that. And Im not alone. Others are commenting on the credulity of the claim. And Jack Shafer disparages the phrase in his article: More time with the family Right, and the check is in the mail. So consider the bravery and forthrightness of Congdon and Jones. When you get fired, consider the idea that it is not a time to be embarrassed but a time to learn. One of the best indicators of how successful someone will be is how well they bounce back from crisis. So let people know the true you, and they will be more able to help you bounce back with more success the next time around.